 What is a Mediator? A Certified Mediator can be a lawyer or a psychotherapist specifically trained to perform as a neutral, unbiased, third-party to assist clients in deciding how they will resolve their conflicts. The Mediator doesn’t make decisions for the clients, but helps to clarify the issues from various perspectives.  What do Mediators do?  Why Mediation? Mediation encourages the clients to stay in control of what happens to their families.  What are the costs & how long does mediation take? Mediation costs are considerably lower than litigating a case in court. The cost of Mediation depends upon the number of sessions needed to reach an agreement. The number of sessions depends upon the specific issues in each case; but it usually takes about 10 hours to complete, and appointments may be scheduled for full or half days. Fees and payment arrangements will be disclosed prior to beginning mediation.  Do both parties have to participate? YES!Mediation is only effective when both parties are willing to cooperate, negotiate, and participate. Call me today for a FREE phone consultation! 1-800-902-5202 (909) 946-9411 |
 What are the steps for Mediation?- First, both parties must mutually agree to mediate
- Make an appointment with an experienced certified divorce mediator
- The Mediator manages, encourages, and guides the process allowing everyone to communicate their ideas
- Various solutions and suggestions may be offered by the Mediator and explored by the clients in order for them to decide the best possible arrangement
- The Mediator will suggest services for filing court documents
- The Mediator will draft the Marital Settlement Agreement
- It is strongly advised that clients seek legal advice prior to signing any agreement
 Is Mediation binding? The mediated Marital Settlement Agreement, also known as the MSA, (or Stipulated Judgment) is binding once it is signed by both parties and submitted to the courts as a binding contract. Prior to signing the Marital Settlement Agreement, the clients can choose to pursue legal action in court if necessary.  What do I bring to the first mediation session? I will give you a list of documents to bring, along with instructions. Come with an open mind ready to cooperate and negotiate.  Is Is Mediation right for everyone? Mediation may not be appropriate for those clients who are unwilling to communicate their needs due to the fear of harmful or violent consequences from their spouse/partner. Additionally, some cases dealing with child abuse, physical or sexual abuse of spouse, financial misconduct, serious mental illness, and substance abuse issues might need court intervention. Do I need an attorney? That’s for you to decide, though I do strongly advise that you have an attorney review the Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA) before you sign it. If you already have an attorney, I will need your written consent to speak with him/her before we begin mediation.  How do I choose a Mediator?Personal referrals are usually the best way to find any professional, including a certified mediator. |
